So that happened this month, but one month on a happier (try not to yell at my kids ) plan also just happened. That what i want to focus and share on. As you know I am a stay at home mom. If you are a stay at home mom, just those words "stay at home mom' in one sentence can just sound so frustrating. I'm not saying I don't enjoy my job. But to be real it is not easy. Some days have been very frustrating. It is so easy to get sucked into a pattern of yelling in frustration. This month I have tried to brake that cycle. It is, at least , a start in a good direction, I truly think I am getting some where. Some times I find my self yelling just because I cant even hear my self think over all this NOISE!!! but most of the times it is because I forgot that although this is a power struggle of types, its between me, and a little kid who is tired, or just needs to spend some alone time in there room. Most Often it is because I for got two simple things "Inhale" and "Exhale". Some times I for get to take time to just breath before I address a situation. So today when the kids got you raging, don't for get to clear your mind, or 'use it' as I like to say. Take a deep breath, you kids will be thankful that you did!
This is who I breath for
Left to right
Ariana, Dulce, Danny, Lexi
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